tuhanu chhuttiya te bahut maza aa reha hai te tusi apne dosta nu is bare dassna chahunde ho! par kive? kee tusi

1.   apne har dost nu post card ja chitthi bhejoge?

2.   ohna sarya nu email karoge?

3.   online photoa paoge?

 jado tuhade maape tuhadi umar de si, taa oh shayad post card ja chitthiya bhejde si.

 kujh saal pehla tusi shayad email karde hunde si.

 ajj ziadatar naujavan online photoa paunde han. kee tusi vi idda hi karde ho? je ha, taa is lekh vich dassya javega ki tusi kujh khatrya to kive bach sakde ho.

•  is de kee faide han?

•  is vich kee khatre han?

•  tusi kee kar sakde ho?

•  tuhade hani kee kehnde han

 photoa fatafat pa sakde ha. “jado mai apne dosta naal kite ghumman jandi ha ja ohna naal mauj-masti kardi ha, taa mai khushi-khushi apnia photoa chheti hi online pa sakdi ha.—maileeni.

 photoa dekhniya bahut asaan han. “dosta diya online photoa dekhniya bahut asaan han jad ki email raahi eh jaan-na aukha hunda ki oh kee kar rahe han.”—jordan.

 tusi doojya naal jurre rehnde ho. “mere parivar de member te kujh dost mere to bahut door rehnde han. oh photoa paunde rehnde han te mai aksar dekhdi rehndi ha. mainu idda laggda jive mai ohna nu har roz dekhdi ha.”—kairan.

 tusi khud nu khatre vich pa sakde ho. je tuhade kaimare vich geotagging hai, taa tuhade vallo paiya gaiya photoa oh jaankari vi dass sakdiya han jo tusi nahi dassni chahunde. digital taraindas website kehndi hai: “online ajehiya photoa ja video vagaira pauniya khatarnak ho sakdiya han jis vich tuhadi lokeshan di jaankari hundi hai. is jaankari naal kujh bure irade vale viakti tracking software di madad naal eh pata laga sakde han ki ik viakti kithe hai.”

 eh sach hai ki kujh apradhiya nu is gall di ziada chinta hundi hai ki tusi kithe nahi ho. digital trends di ik report mutabak ik vaar tinn chora ne 18 gharaa vich os vele chori keeti jado ghar vich koi nahi si. ohna nu kive pata lagga ki os vele ghar koi nahi hovega? ohna ne cybercasing naa di ik technique naal online ja ke ohna gharaa vich rehen valya te nazar rakhi ki oh kado aaunde te kado jande han. idda kar ke ohna chora ne 1,00,000 amreeki dollara diya cheeza churaiya.

 tusi oh cheeza dekh sakde ho jo shayad tuhanu nahi dekhniya chaheediya. kujh lok bina jhijke sari duniya samne online kujh vi pa dinde han. serah naa di ik naujavan kudi kehndi hai: “mushkal os vele kharhi hundi jado tuhade samne ohna lokaa de vi account aa jande han jinha nu tusi nahi jaande. eh kise anjaan sheher vich bina nakshe de ghumman vang hai. asi kise idda di jagah te pahunch sakde ha jithe khatra hai.”

 tuhada sama barbaad ho sakda hai. yolainda naa di ik naujavan kehndi hai: “sanu doojya diya naviya-naviya photoa dekhan te ohna diya tippniya parhan di lat lagg sakdi hai. eh lat inni vadh sakdi hai ki shayad tusi kujh skinta baad apna phone kadd ke eh dekho ki kite kise ne koi navi cheez taa nahi payi.”

 samaintha naa di alarr umar di naujavan is gall naal sehmat hai. oh kehndi hai: “mainu eh tai karna painda ki mai ihna websita nu kinni ku der dekhangi. je asi photo-sharing account rakhna chahunde ha, taa sanu apne aap te kaabu paaun di lorr hai.”

•   pakka irada karo ki tusi na taa koi galat photo dekhoge te na hi koi galat jaankari parhoge. bible kehndi hai: “mai virthi gall nu apnia akkha de sahmne na rakhanga.”—zaboor 101:3.

   “mai lagatar ohna lokaa de post dekhda rehnda ha jinha nu mai follow karda ha. par je mainu laggda hai ki ohna ne kujh galat post keeta hai, taa mai ohna nu follow karna band kar dinda ha.”—stephen.

•   ajehe lokaa naal koi vasta na rakho jinha diya kadra-keemta tuhade vargiya nahi han kyoki oh nek chaal-chalan rakhan de tuhade irade nu kamzor kar sakde han. bible kehndi hai: “dhokha na khao, buriya sangta changiya aadata vigarr dindiya han.”—1 kurinthiya 15:33.

   “online photoa sirf is karke na dekho kyoki lok is tarha karde han. lok aksar gandiya galla, nange lokaa diya tasveera atey ghatiya galla pa dinde han.”—jessica.

•   tai karo ki tusi kinni der tak photoa dekhoge te khud kinni vaar post karoge. bible kehndi hai: “tusi is gall da poora-poora dhyaan rakho ki tusi moorkha vang nahi, sago budhiman insaana vang challde ho. apne same nu changi tarha varto.”—afsiya 5:15, 16.

   mai ohna nu follow karna band kar ditta hai jo kujh-na-kujh post karde rehnde han. misal layi, koi samundar kinare janda hai te ikko ghoge diya 20 photoa pa dinda hai. ehi vi koi gall bani? inniya sariya photoa dekhan vich kinna hi sama barbaad ho janda!”—rebekah.

•   is gall da dhyaan rakho ki online paiya photoa to eh na lagge ki bas is duniya vich sirf tusi hi ho. bible de likhari paulus ne likhya: “mai . . . tuhanu har ik nu kehnda ha ki tusi apne aap nu lorro vadh na samjho.” (romiya 12:3) eh na socho ki tuhade dost bas tuhadiya hi photoa dekhniya chahunde han.

   “kujh lok selfiya post karde rehnde han. mai tuhadi dost ha te mainu pata tusi kidda de dikhde ho. mainu vaar-vaar yaad karaun di lorr nahi.”—alison.