asi bible diya sikhyaava mutabak sanskar naal jurre vichaar rakhde ha atey kamm karde ha jive thalle dassya hai:

•   apne kise dost ja rishtedar di maut hon te sog manauna aam gall hai. yisu de chelya ne apne dosta atey rishtedara di maut hon te sog manaya si. (yuhanna 11:33-35, 38; rasoola de kamm 8:2; 9:39) is layi asi sanskar nu mauj-masti da sama nahi mannde. (updeshak di pothi 3:1, 4; 7:1-4) asi is mauke te humdardi jataunde ha.—romiya 12:15.

•   mare hoye kujh vi nahi jaande. saddi nasal ja sabhyachar jo vi hove, asi bible to ulat reeti-rivaja nu nahi mannde jo is vishvas ’te aadhaarit han ki mare hoye lok sabh kujh jaande han atey jeeunde lokaa ’te prabhav pa sakde han. (updeshak di pothi 9:5, 6, 10) ihna vicho kujh reeti-rivaaj han: sari raat jagna, ikatthe ho ke khana-peena atey naach-gana, barsiya manauniya, murdya nu charhave charhaune, mare hoye lokaa naal galla karniya te ohna nu bentiya karniya atey pati ja patni de maran to baad diya rasma-reeta pooriya karniya. asi ihna sariya rasma atey kamma to door rehnde ha te bible da eh hukam mannde ha: “apne aap nu vakh karo, . . . kise vi ashudh cheez nu hath na lao.”—2 kurinthiya 6:17.

•   mare lokaa layi umeed. bible vich dassya gaya hai ki mare hoye lokaa nu jeeunda keeta javega atey ik ajeha sama aavega jado maut nahi hovegi. (rasoola de kamm 24:15; prakash di kitab 21:4) jis tarha is umeed ne pehli sadi de masihiya di madad keeti si, ose tarha eh umeed saddi vi madad kardi hai jis karke asi haddo-vadh sog nahi manaunde.—1 thassluneekiya 4:13.

•   bible dikhava na karan di salah dindi hai. (kahauta 11:2) asi eh nahi mannde ki kise di maut hon te asi apne samajak ja aarthik rutbe da “dikhava” kariye. (1 yuhanna 2:16) asi thaath-baath naal sanskar nahi karde jo sirf manoranjan karan layi hunde han ja asi bahut mehnge taboot nahi khareedde atey lokaa nu prabhavit karan layi mehnge-mehnge kappde nahi paunde.

•   asi sanskar sambandhi apne vishvas doosrya ’te thopan di koshish nahi karde. is mamle vich asi eh asool mannde ha: “sadde vicho harek ne parmeshwar nu aapo apna lekha dena hai.” (romiya 14:12) par mauka milan te asi “narmayi atey poore aadar” naal apne vishvas dassan di koshish karde ha.—1 patras 3:15.

 jagah: je kise parivar ne sanskar karna hai, taa oh faisla kar sakda hai ki sanskar kingdom haal, janaza-ghar, kise ghar, shamshan ghaat ja kabrastan vich karna hai.

 prabandh: sanskar de mauke te ik bhashan ditta janda hai ki bible maut atey dobara ji uthaun di umeed bare kee kehndi hai taaki sog karan valya nu dilasa mil sake. (yuhanna 11:25; romiya 5:12; 2 patras 3:13) sanskar de mauke te shayad mar chukke viakti de change gunna nu yaad keeta jave ja os di vafadari bare hausle bhariya galla dassiya jaan.—2 samuel 1:17-27.

 bible ’te aadhaarit geet gaya janda hai. (kulussiya 3:16) program de akheer vich dilase bhari prarthna keeti jandi hai.—filippiya 4:6, 7.

 fees ja chanda: asi na taa sanskar karan layi ja hor dharmik sevava layi koi fees lainde ha te na hi saddiya sabhava vich chanda ikattha keeta janda hai.—matti 10:8.

 haazri: jehrre lok gavah nahi han, ohna da kingdom haal vich sanskar de mauke te haazar hon layi suaagat keeta janda hai. saddiya hor sabhava vang sanskar de mauke te vi sare lok haazar ho sakde han.

 har gavah bible anusar dhali gayi zameer anusar khud faisla karda hai ki oh hor dharma anusar keete jande sanskara vich haazar hovega ki nahi. (1 timothius 1:19) par asi ohna dharmik rasma vich hissa nahi lainde jo bible naal mel nahi khandiya.—2 kurinthiya 6:14-17.